
Legal Advice on Separation
If you are separating from your partner, it is important to seek specialist family legal advice on your rights from North West family solicitors.
Knowing your rights can help you separate amicably. Consulting a family lawyer isn’t an adversarial step; it's just protecting your interests and helping you navigate the next steps to life after a separation or divorce.
Contact our specialist family lawyers for a consultation on your separation.
Tips on how to separate from a partner
Whether you are separating from a spouse, civil partner, or cohabiting partner, you need to talk to an expert family solicitor. Early knowledge about your separation legal rights is vital as the advice can affect your plans and timescales.
There are five key issues to consider when contemplating a separation:
1. Has my relationship ended, or could it be revived?
2. Can I leave the relationship safely?
3. When and how do I tell my partner I am leaving?
4. When should the children be told that mum and dad are separating?
5. How do I sort out the legal, property or financial aspects of my separation?
Has my relationship ended?
It isn't always easy to tell if your relationship has ended. You may think relationship counselling could revive it, or a trial separation may help your relationship get back on track.
Even if your relationship has definitely ended, some couples find joint counselling sessions helpful in achieving an amicable separation. Others benefit from individual counselling to help them come to terms with the relationship breakdown and move on with their lives.
It's common to feel grief, anger, shame and a whole range of other emotions when you separate. If your former partner does not appear as affected by the end of the relationship, it may be because they have already emotionally detached from the family. That doesn’t mean your emotions are wrong, but it can help you to work through them with a counsellor or divorce coach.
Can I leave my relationship safely?
Whatever the legal status of your relationship, it's vital that your separation takes place safely. If you have:
1. Lived in a relationship with domestic abuse or
2. You fear domestic violence when you announce you want to leave or
3. You are concerned about ongoing coercive control after your separation.
Injunction solicitors can help you secure a non-molestation, ouster, or occupation order to safeguard you and your family.
Family law solicitors always recommend taking legal advice on your separation before you leave the family home. That advice applies to you even if:
1. You are unmarried, and your partner owns the property.
2. You are renting.
3. You don’t have children.
4. You don’t think you could afford the outgoings on the family home on your own.
5. Your ex hasn’t been violent.
Leaving the family home when you don’t need to do so can put you on the back foot when negotiating a property settlement as an unmarried partner or a financial settlement as a spouse. If you have children, leaving the family home can be highly disruptive for them. Child support (and interim spousal maintenance if you are married) may allow you to stay at the family home until the separation or divorce is finalised and a financial court order is made.
When and how do I tell my partner I am leaving?
Telling your partner that your relationship is over, or hearing the news from them, is never easy. How and when you should have the ‘it isn’t working’ conversation depends on your circumstances. However, family lawyers always recommend talking to a solicitor first as their specialist legal advice may help you:
1. Decide on the timing of your separation and put a plan in action. For example, if you need an injunction order or the support of your family in telling your partner the relationship is at an end or in the immediate aftermath.
2. Organise your finances so you know how much income you will have if you are paying or receiving child support or spousal maintenance.
3. Help you understand whether you are likely to be able to stay in the family home whilst the financial and property aspects of your separation are sorted out.
4. Understand the likely parenting arrangements for your children. Temporary arrangements may need to be sorted out until future living arrangements are finalised. You may need an urgent child arrangement order if the separation is acrimonious.
5. Think about whether there are any risk factors, such as your ex trying to take your child overseas (this is parental child abduction if going abroad is without your consent) or trying to exert coercive control (to try to force you to stay in the relationship or to agree a financial settlement that suits them).
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When should the children be told that mum and dad are separating?
Talking to your child or stepchild about the end of a parental relationship is a tough one. Many parents delay the discussion because it is so uncomfortable, and they think the children won't pick up on the atmosphere at home, whilst other parents want to ‘get in first.’ Ideally, parents should try to talk to their children together, but that can be too hard for some parents or counterproductive if there is a lot of anger about the separation.
There is specialist help available, such as:
• Supporting Children through Separation and Divorce | NSPCC
• Supporting your child through divorce and separation | Cafcass
• Helping children through separation | Gingerbread
Legal advice on separation: How do I sort out the legal, property or financial aspects of my separation?
If you are contemplating the future of your relationship or if your partner has told you that the relationship is over, you need to speak to a family solicitor to understand your rights.
Talking to a lawyer doesn’t mean that you both need to ‘lawyer up’ and go to court to thrash out who gets custody of the kids or who stays in the house.
At Evolve Family Law, we offer a fixed-fee relationship breakdown comprehensive initial review. The fee includes a meeting with a qualified lawyer to discuss all legal and practical aspects of your situation, including assessing the best routes to resolving it. That meeting may then enable you to use family mediation to achieve an amicable separation or to understand your rights and not feel totally at sea, not knowing what is reasonable to ask for or how the next steps will pan out after you have made the decision to separate.
An initial consultation is equally helpful if your ex has announced that the relationship is ending and that you will need to pack your bags or that they will be doing so, leaving you devastated and wondering how you will cope with the children and the bills.
At Evolve, we know that any separation is painful, but we try to ease your pain by giving you the information and support you need.
At Evolve, our North West family law solicitors are:
• Local with offices in Holmes Chapel, Cheshire and Manchester.
• Specialists – we advise on family and private client law as we know what we know.
• Tailored and bespoke – with us, you get advice tailored to you and your family.
• Proactive – if you need urgent legal advice to protect your children or to secure an injunction, we have the specialist team you need on your side.
• Ranked excellent on Trustpilot.
Contact our specialist family lawyers for a consultation on your separation.
Louise Halford
Apr 16, 2025
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7 minute read

Finding a Northwest Divorce Solicitor Charging Fair Fees
At Evolve Family Law, founders Robin Charrot and Louise Halford recognised that if they were going to ‘break the mould’ and set up a family law firm with a difference, they would need a fair fees policy for their clients. That policy has been in place since Evolve Family Law was established in 2015.
A decade on, the Law Society (a sort of trade union for solicitors) and the Solicitors Regulation Authority (the organisation tasked with regulating the legal profession) are looking at how lawyers charge.
Evolve Family Law always welcomes an up-front chat with new clients about legal fees. We recommend you look at our prices page and then contact our family lawyers and Will and estate planning solicitors to see how we can help with your divorce, separation from your unmarried partner, dispute over parenting arrangements (custody or contact), financial settlement or Will and estate planning.
If you need help with family or private client law, phone Evolve Family Law or complete our online enquiry form.
The cost of using a divorce solicitor
When you first talk to a divorce lawyer, your priority is getting your divorce sorted out. That might include obtaining a child arrangement order so your children can live with you, negotiating a financial settlement that allows you to move on with your life and securing your no-fault divorce. Enquiries about costs can be a low priority until the law firm starts sending invoices, but for interested clients, lawyers charge in two main ways:
Fixed fees
Hourly rates
With a fixed fee agreement, you know that whether your Will solicitor spends one hour or eight hours advising you on estate planning and writing your Will, you will be charged the fixed amount. The same applies to Northwest divorce lawyers and no-fault divorces.
Some areas of family law are difficult to bill fairly on a fixed fee basis. Take the case of a child arrangement order or specific issue order application, your children lawyers won't know if you will need to attend two or twelve court hearings before the family court judge makes a final order. If the lawyer bases their fixed fee on twelve hearings, that wouldn’t be fair to the parents who can reach an agreement at the second court hearing. At Evolve Family Law, we think the fair thing to do is to offer a mix of fixed fees and fees based on the fee-earner’s hourly rates.
Hourly rates for divorce solicitors
Evolve Family Law has been publishing our competitive hourly rates for directors (Louise Halford and Robin Charrot), family law and Will solicitors and paralegals for nearly a decade. What sets us apart from many other law firms is that we charge by the minute. That sounds greedy, but it isn’t when you contrast our established legal billing practices with other North West law firms. Most law firms charge in six-minute units. What that means in practice is if a solicitor spends 13 minutes reading a document, you will be charged for 18 minutes of the lawyer’s time. At Evolve Family Law, we charge you for the 13 minutes of time spent by one of our lawyers at their agreed hourly rate.
You may think that paying extra for a few minutes of your solicitor's time isn’t a big deal. However, over a long financial settlement negotiation or complex child abduction proceedings, all those minutes can add up to thousands of pounds in comparison to the fees charged by a ‘by the minute’ lawyer.
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Interest on your money
There may be times when your lawyer must hold money on your behalf. For example, client money can be held by a family law or private client solicitor where:
Money is paid upfront for legal fees or expenses such as barrister or expert fees
A lump sum payment will be paid to your ex-husband or wife with the payment going via solicitors
The assets of an estate have been gathered in and a probate solicitor needs to pay inheritance tax and debts owed by the estate before distributing the balance to the beneficiaries in the Will (if there is no Will, the monies will be distributed by following the intestacy rules)
You may think that interest will be a miniscule amount, but that could not be further from the truth.
A recent Law Society financial benchmarking survey reveals the facts. The survey was written and produced by the legal team at Hazlewoods LLP for the Law Society Leadership and Management Section and sponsored by Lloyds. Data was collected from 145 small and mid-sized law firms across England and Wales, with the firms having a combined fee income of over £1.1 billion.
A Law Society Gazette article highlights that falling law firm profits are masked by the equity partners or directors of law firms retaining the interest earned on client capital while it is banked by the law firms. Research shows that around 20% of partners' and directors' income is generated from client interest rather than traditional fixed fees or hourly rate charges. Using client interest to generate income for lawyers is a practice that the Solicitors Regulation Authority is looking into.
At Evolve Family Law, we have taken a lead on fair billing and retention of client interest. Our policy is that the interest generated on our holding money on your behalf belongs to you and we will repay any interest earned on your money if the interest amount exceeds £50. We have a £50 interest threshold as otherwise we would spend more administration time in refunding interest. Increasing our administration overheads (and, therefore our hourly rates) isn’t in the best interests of all our valued clients.
Talk to Evolve Family Law
At Evolve Family Law, we believe in being transparent in all we do. That means in addition to being upfront on costs, we are equally clear on the timescales to obtain a family court order or to administer an estate and the likely complexities. We think good communication is the key to a good relationship with our clients. We hope that you will agree to our approach and will want to work with us.
If you need help with family or private client law, phone Evolve Family Law or complete our online enquiry form.
Robin Charrot
Mar 28, 2025
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6 minute read

How do I Change my Name After Divorce?
Some people want to change their name after their divorce. Others worry that it will mean they have a different surname to their children. In some situations, a woman is told to change their name back to their maiden name because their ex-husband doesn’t want them to continue using his surname.
In this blog, our Northwest divorce solicitors look at the law on changing your name and how to go about it if you decide to do so after your divorce.
For expert divorce advice call our team of specialist divorce lawyers or complete our online enquiry form.
Does your surname automatically revert to your maiden name after divorce?
A woman's surname does not automatically change back to her maiden name upon her divorce. A conscious decision needs to be made.
Our family law solicitors recommend you reflect on whether you want to use a different name than your married name and that you don’t allow yourself to be influenced by the views of your former spouse or family.
If you decide to change your name for a second time back to your married surname you can do so but it involves more paperwork. That’s why we suggest you consider your options rather than rush into a name change. It is also important to get the timing right. For example, you may not want to change your surname before a planned overseas holiday when your passport will be in a different name to your holiday booking or when you are a few days away from completing the sale of the family home.
Changing your name after divorce
Anyone in England can call themselves what they want. There is no property in a name. By that, we mean that if you want to keep your husband's surname after your divorce you are free to do so. There is nothing he can do to stop you. Equally, you can change your first name, your surname or both names or revert to using your maiden name.
How to go about changing your name
You can call yourself what you want but you are likely to need evidence of your change of name. For example, if you want a new passport, to transfer your bank account into your new name or to buy a property.
If you are changing your surname back to your maiden name some institutions will accept your birth certificate, marriage certificate and final divorce order as sufficient evidence. Others may want a formal change of name deed. Our family law solicitors can prepare the change of name deed for you. We will ensure you receive sufficient certified copies so you can use the certified change of name deed with institutions such as banks, building societies, your employer, the DVLA and the passport office.
If you have a Will, you should keep a copy of your change of name deed with your Will and other important documents. When you get divorced you need to update your Will so it is sensible to sign your change of name deed before you sign your new Will. Our private client solicitors can advise you on your Will and your lasting power of attorney.
Registering a change of name deed
You can register your change of name deed but there is no legal requirement or need to do so. An unregistered change of name deed document is referred to as ‘unenrolled’ and a registered one as ‘enrolled.’ Enrolling the deed involves an application to the Royal Courts of Justice and payment of a fee. Your change of name is then a matter of public record.
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Changing a child’s surname
Your decision to change your surname after your divorce may be influenced by whether your child can change their surname. A child can change their surname with the agreement of their parents and anyone else with parental responsibility for the child. If a parent or other person won't agree to the name change an application can be made to the family court for a specific issue order. In a specific issue order application, the judge decides on the child’s surname after considering the child’s best interests.
Where a name change is agreed or the court orders a change of name a parent can sign a change of name deed on behalf of their child.
The fact that a parent is not paying child support or a parent is not having regular contact does not mean that the court will order a name change. The court looks at the application from the perspective of the child and whether a name change would be confusing or beneficial.
Our family law solicitors can advise you on all aspects of parenting your child after a separation or divorce including advice on residence and contact, applying for a child arrangement order or reaching a parenting agreement through solicitor negotiations or in family mediation.
For friendly expert divorce advice call our team of specialist divorce lawyers or complete our online enquiry form.
Louise Halford
Mar 02, 2025
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5 minute read

Navigating the Stages of Grief During Divorce
In this blog, North West family lawyer Louise Halford looks at divorce emotions and explains how an empathetic family law solicitor can help you navigate the stages of grief during divorce.
Separation and divorce can be an emotional rollercoaster. It’s a ride you probably didn’t want to get on with many twists and turns.
At Evolve Family Law our divorce solicitors understand that as well as needing specialist family law advice to help you on your divorce journey you also require support in navigating the path to life beyond divorce.
If you need help with your divorce or separation phone us or complete our online enquiry form.
Experiencing divorce emotions
Everyone experiences divorce differently. With over 25 years of experience as a family lawyer, Louise Halford has learnt that divorce emotions are not necessarily linked to how long you were married or if you are divorcing with young children. If you have been married for two years your divorce emotions may be just as intense as someone who was married for twenty-plus years - because you are grieving for the years and the children you might have had.
When you are separating your friends and family may try to compare what you are going through with their own experiences or tell you to get a grip because your divorce emotions can't be compared to a bereavement. However, with a bereavement, you may feel anger and an overwhelming sense of loss but not the same sense of rejection and repudiation. The grief can be just as real as a bereavement, just different.
As specialist family law solicitors, we see a lot of raw divorce emotions. We believe it’s best for people to be honest about their grief and for comparisons not to be made with others – it isn’t a league table and you are entitled to feel the emotions you are experiencing.
The range of divorce emotions
People can feel:
Grief and sorrow
Anger and rage
Guilt
Sadness and a sense of loss
Euphoria and joy
Vindication
Fear
You may feel all these emotions during your separation and divorce or just some of them. Often emotions can be all mixed up with you feeling euphoric at finally taking the plunge and leaving your ex but fearful about your future.
Emotions can be very jumbled up. For example:
Experiencing grief because your children won't have the sort of childhood you envisaged for them
Feeling guilty that you were the one to end the relationship but feeling glad that you can move on with your life
Feeling euphoric that you have your final order in the divorce proceedings but sad because of the impact of the separation on your children
Feeling vindicated because your suspicions about your ex were right but fearful about what the future may hold for you as a single parent
Some of our divorce clients are very open about their emotions. They describe the daily rollercoaster of feeling bereft at breakfast and optimistic by one o'clock with tinges of vindication tempered by guilt. Those feelings can be even more complicated when you are trying to help your children or step-children through their emotional processing of parental separation and to sort out post-separation parenting arrangements.
Divorce emotions and children
The first point to acknowledge is that whether you are a stay-at-home parent of a toddler or living with your adult children in the family home your children can colour your divorce journey. For example:
Guilt – because you won't be able to fund a deposit for your adult child to buy their first home or you may have to return to work earlier than anticipated after the birth of a child
Fear – because you are worried about the impact of selling the family home on teenage children
Anger – as you know your child is upset that they are no longer living with both parents and you can't see your child as much as you would like as your ex is being difficult
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Managing divorce emotions
Some people manage their grief and divorce emotions by denying they exist and devoting their energy to appearing calm and in control. It can be counterproductive to keep a tight lid on emotions. They can explode into a burst of anger meaning you tell your ex what you really think of their behaviour. That can be unhelpful when trying to co-parent or negotiate a financial settlement.
Others manage their grief by talking to family or friends but this can be wearing for friends or family if they are your sole source of support. They may also offer support that isn’t appropriate for you or the sort of help that may exacerbate your issues. Others may try to take over in the guise of helping but it is your financial settlement, not theirs.
Keeping divorce emotions in check can be important if you are employed but it isn’t realistic to think that your work won't be affected by what is happening in your personal life. Sometimes letting the HR department know about your separation can help as managers may be more sympathetic if they know you have separated. That’s because employers perceive divorce as a temporary problem resulting in a short-term dip in performance rather than an unexplained and potential long-term issue. Also, some employers offer paid for counselling.
Getting some help to manage divorce grief and emotions
A divorce solicitor isn’t a counsellor or therapist but you should not hide how you feel from your lawyer. They need to know this so they can provide the support you need. This could range from suggesting you meet with a specialist counsellor, see your GP or delay starting family mediation until you are ‘in a better place’ to negotiate a financial settlement. Alternatively, you may need more practical help, such as a recommendation for an empathetic mortgage advisor or financial advisor to fully explore and explain your mortgage or financial options or advice on applying for an injunction order or a child arrangement order if your emotions are down to your ex-partner continuing to harass you or due to their behaviour around the children.
Divorce emotions don’t cut off after six weeks or even a year. You may be a sudden rush of emotion when you thought you were over the worst. Telling your solicitor how you feel is important so they don’t mistake your emotional state as being willing to do a deal at a financial dispute resolution hearing when the reality is that you are feeling overwhelmed and unable to make decisions.
At Evolve Family Law all our solicitors are empathetic to your situation and are here to listen and help.
If you need help with your divorce or separation phone us or complete our online enquiry form.
Louise Halford
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6 minute read

How to Write a Consent Order for Divorce?
Our North West divorce solicitors write lots of financial consent orders. This blog explains why you need an order and how we write them.
If you would like our help in negotiating a financial settlement or writing an order then call us for a quote and to arrange a consultation.
For financial consent order advice call our team of specialist divorce lawyers or complete our online enquiry form.
Why you need a financial consent order
Anyone who is getting divorced, or who got divorced without a financial court order, needs an order.
That advice applies even if you:
Don’t own a house
Signed a prenup or postnup
Parted amicably and you don’t think your ex would ever come after you for money
Split the house sale proceeds when you separated
Didn’t start your new business or buy your current house until after your divorce
Signed a separation agreement
Reached an agreement in family mediation
Think your ex has more money than you
If you don’t have a financial court order you risk your ex being able to ask for a financial settlement. Your former spouse can do that many years after the divorce is finalised. Back in 2000, you may have been married for a few years and think that you are in the clear but your ex could have hit hard times or heard about your success and want a share of your pension or a payoff because they know you have inherited some money.
If you don’t want to be at risk of an unexpected claim you need a financial court order – preferably one that includes a clean break.
What is a clean break financial consent order?
A clean break financial consent order stops any future financial claims. Other types of financial consent orders leave the door partially open so a spouse can ask for maintenance later or can ask the court to swap their spousal maintenance into a pension sharing order. If you are relying on your ex’s solicitor to prepare the consent order because you want to save a bit of money then this may be a false economy as you need to know what your options are and what the clauses mean.
For example, a financial consent order can be a full clean break, partial clean break or leave future claims open. The law is confusing and that’s why most divorcing couples find that they need expert advice to protect their interests.
Even if you didn’t negotiate a clean break order some things can't be reopened after you have obtained your financial consent order. For example, if you agreed to give your ex-husband £100,000 in consideration for him agreeing to transfer the family home into your name, your ex can't normally argue after the order has been made that he wants an extra £20,000. The only circumstances where a capital part of a financial consent order can be re-opened is where a former spouse can show there was an element of dishonesty or coercion at the time of the original order. Feeling regretful that you didn’t get a better deal isn’t sufficient for a court to reopen the order.
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How to write a financial consent order?
You need to take a lot of care when writing a financial consent order. That’s because once the order is made it is final. The judge won't agree to you asking to change the order because you did not fully understand what a clause meant.
As family law solicitors we write financial consent orders every week but we are cautious when doing so to check that:
The wording in the draft financial consent order is the same as in your negotiated financial settlement. Your financial deal could be in a solicitor’s letter, minutes of a roundtable meeting or memorandum of agreement made in family mediation
The wording is as clear and simple as possible whilst also following legal precedents. These legal precedents mean it is less likely that your financial consent order wording could be questioned by the judge asked to approve the order or later on. For example, if your order includes spousal maintenance but does not give your ex the ability to apply back to court to extend the time that spousal maintenance is paid for, this must be carefully worded as a deferred clean break
You understand what your financial consent order means and who is responsible for checking its implementation. For example, if you agree to a pension sharing order it must be implemented by the pension administrator. The court will not implement the order for you
The order is capable of being enforced. If you have agreed to receive £100,000 as a lump sum from your ex there needs to be a deadline for payment so you can enforce the order if it isn’t paid. If you are going to receive spousal maintenance the order should say that the money will be paid by standing order to save aggro
You understand the importance of providing accurate information in your financial statement of information. The judge will not approve your agreed financial consent order without you both completing a financial statement of information. This must be on the prescribed form. While the judge won't be concerned about the pence (you can round down or up the amount you have in savings) the onus is on you to provide accurate information. For example, if you say your family business shareholding is worth £500,000 when you have had an offer for the company that gives your shares a value of £3 m. That level of inaccuracy would leave you exposed to your ex being able to reopen the order as it was made without full and frank financial disclosure. The same would apply if you only mentioned one pension transfer value when you had three pensions at the time of your divorce or if you didn’t mention other relevant financial or personal information
The order is future-proofed if that is what you want. If you have agreed to pay spousal maintenance, do you want to include a clause that says the maintenance is inflation-linked to avoid the need for variation applications? There are other ways you may need to future-proof your order
Fixed fee financial consent orders
At Evolve Family Law we offer transparent pricing and fixed fees for preparing most financial consent orders. For more information on our fixed fees have a look here.
For information on financial consent orders or advice on divorce or family law call our team of specialist divorce lawyers or complete our online enquiry form.
Robin Charrot
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6 minute read

Divorce Settlement Advice UK
Sorting out how you split the equity in the family home can be tricky. It can be a lot harder to reach a divorce settlement when you are also trying to agree on who pays the bank loan and credit cards, what happens to the pensions, and whether one of you should pay spousal maintenance and for how long.
In this blog, our family law solicitors answer your questions on divorce financial settlements.
Call us for expert family law advice or complete our online enquiry form.
Reaching a divorce settlement
In the UK, divorce settlements are discretionary and based on reasonable needs. The statutory factors make it hard for couples to reach a financial agreement as English family law doesn’t say that a husband and wife must split their assets equally or that a wife must return to full-time employment when the youngest child is 11 or that a husband will always keep a family business owned before the marriage or even that the divorce court must follow a prenuptial agreement.
If there are no hard and fast rules, how are divorce settlements reached? Ultimately, if a husband and wife can't agree, it is down to a family court judge to decide what happens to each asset and make a financial court order. The judge will look at statutory criteria and case law when making the order. When a divorce solicitor advises on likely divorce settlement outcomes, they base their advice on their experience in negotiating settlements and representing spouses in contested financial court proceedings.
Divorce settlement advice
If you need divorce settlement advice, it's crucial to speak to a divorce lawyer. The solicitor will talk to you about your circumstances before offering advice. Examples of why information and talking are important include:
It is often assumed there should be a 50/50 split of assets after a long marriage. However, that assumption could be displaced for several reasons, such as the wife can't get a mortgage and needs more than 50% of the assets to buy a new family home for herself and the children or most of the assets were inherited by the husband before the marriage and the wife can comfortably rehouse herself and meet all her other needs with 30% of the total assets. Alternatively, the couple may have signed a prenuptial agreement to ringfence inherited money
Clean breaks should be achieved to end any financial or other ongoing ties between husband and wife. However, if the family home is sold, the equity won't be enough for either the husband or wife to buy another property, so both parents will be stuck renting. Maybe the parent who is the primary carer of the children should stay in the family home until the youngest child is 18. The house can then be sold, and the proceeds of the sale can be split in percentages fair to the ex-husband and wife
Discretion and how it works with divorce settlements
Family law solicitors will outline the discretionary factors the court applies when making a financial court order after a contested final hearing of a financial application. The factors are just as relevant if you are negotiating an agreement through family mediation, solicitor negotiations or trying to do a deal at a financial dispute resolution hearing.
The discretionary factors are contained in Section 25 of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973. The lawyer shorthand for them is ‘Section 25 criteria’.
The court’s first concern should be the welfare of any dependent children and how the children's needs will be met. The court should then consider the Section 25 criteria:
The income, earning capacity, property, and other financial resources that the husband and wife have or are likely to have in the foreseeable future. With earning capacity, this includes any increase in that capacity which it would, in the opinion of the court, be reasonable to expect a husband or wife to take steps to acquire
The financial needs, obligations, and responsibilities that the husband and wife have or are likely to have in the foreseeable future
The standard of living enjoyed by the family before the breakdown of the marriage
The age of the husband and wife and the length of the relationship
Any health issues affecting either the husband or wife or their children
The contributions made by the husband or wife or likely to be made in the foreseeable future to the welfare of the family, including any contribution as a homemaker or stay-at-home parent
The conduct of the husband or wife if that conduct is such that it would, in the opinion of the court, be inequitable to disregard it
The value to the husband and wife of any benefit (for example, a pension) that they will lose the chance of acquiring because of the divorce
With this list of factors, it is easy to see how, in some situations, a judge may order a different financial settlement from another judge. However, the difference in judicial view should be within a band of reasonableness. For example, it would be unreasonable for one judge to say an equal split of equity in the family home and for another one to say a 90/10 split of the equity in the family home would meet the Section 25 criteria.
With the uncertainty of judicial discretion, most divorcing couples prefer to try to negotiate a divorce financial consent order based on their family lawyer’s assessment of the Section 25 criteria.
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How to get the best divorce settlement
Some people think the only way to get the best divorce settlement is to apply to the court for a financial order. They may be right. For example, if their former spouse is refusing to provide financial disclosure, is transferring assets to friends or family or is refusing to agree to a valuation of the family home or business. In other situations, a divorcing husband or wife must weigh up the costs and time in making a financial application against the benefits to be gained.
A family law solicitor will tell you that if your ex-spouse is only offering you 10% of the family assets, you need to go to court. It is far harder to advise on the decision to start financial proceedings if your former spouse is offering you 45%. The decision may then come down to the value of the 5% of the assets you may be losing out on balanced against the costs of going to court. Things are often more complicated than that, as you may also dispute your ex-spouse’s valuation of his business or home, or you may argue that your ex-partner is offering you assets that are not as valuable to you as the ones you want. For example, they may be proposing that they will keep all the equity in the family home and you keep all your pensions, but that deal doesn’t give you the capital to rehouse yourself even though it will provide you with an income in eventual retirement.
At Evolve Family Law, our North West divorce solicitors focus on finding out what your ideal divorce settlement would look like and why. We then work on discovering the full extent of the family assets and any property that might be classed as non-family assets. We can then have an informed discussion with you about your realistic settlement options so you can weigh up the pros and cons of court proceedings over family mediation or arbitration or weigh up the advantages of spousal maintenance over a bigger share of equity in the family home. Having the right expert support behind you can give you the confidence to say yes or no to what is on offer from your ex, knowing that your lawyers have a strategy to get you the divorce settlement you need.
Call us for an appointment to discuss your divorce settlement or complete our online enquiry form.
Robin Charrot
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7 minute read

Prenuptial Agreement Lawyers Examine the Latest Prenup Statistics
In this blog, prenuptial agreement solicitor Robin Charrot looks at the statistics on prenuptial agreements and explains why you should consider signing a prenup or postnuptial agreement.
For prenuptial agreement advice call our team of specialist family lawyers or complete our online enquiry form.
Prenup statistics
The research from Handelsbanken Wealth & Asset Management highlights that:
Only one in ten couples have a prenuptial agreement
Younger married couples are more likely to sign a prenup before marriage
Nearly a third of those interviewed didn’t sign a prenup because they didn’t think they would get divorced
Prenup research and the relevance of age
The Handelsbanken research reveals how important age is to the decision to sign a relationship agreement.
Although 89% of couples don’t have a prenup, the statistics are very different when broken down into age groups:
40% of couples aged 18-34 have a prenup
11% of couples aged 35-54 have a prenup
1% of couples over 55 have a prenup
What’s concerning to prenuptial agreement lawyers is that according to 2021 statistics from the Office of National Statistics, the average duration of a marriage at divorce was 12.3 years for opposite-sex divorces in 2021.
Handelsbanken research shows that, worryingly, those entering second or third marriages or getting married for the first time later in life are less likely to sign a prenup. While anyone getting married should consider signing a prenup, it is especially sensible to do so if you have pre-marriage acquired assets, a prior divorce financial settlement, or children from a previous relationship.
Research on why couples don’t sign prenups
Prenuptial agreement solicitors are always interested in discovering why people don’t want the safeguards a relationship agreement provides. The research shows:
10% hadn’t heard about prenups
15% thought they would be able to sort things out between themselves
16% were not worried about splitting up and dividing assets
17% thought assets would be split equally
32% thought they would not split up so a prenup was unnecessary
The responses reveal that many of those interviewed do not see a prenup in the same way as say life or critical illness policies; a safeguard that you hopefully won't need but comforting to know it is there if you need it.
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Why you need a prenuptial agreement
Let's go through the reasons why people don’t sign prenups and explain why they can be helpful:
No need, we agree – when you are getting married and in love you don’t need a prenup. However, at the time of your separation or divorce, when you are likely to have far more in property equity, pensions and other assets, emotions and hurt may cloud your judgment or that of your husband or wife
We are not worried – you may not be worried about having a prenup but if you do split up you may regret not signing one. A prenup can take away a lot of the worry and stress at the time of your separation because you are less likely to end up in expensive and lengthy court proceedings over how your assets should be split and if spousal maintenance should be paid
No need, it's an equal split – that may be accurate at the time of your marriage but fast forward 5, 10, 15 or 20 years and it could be a different story. For example, you may need spousal maintenance if you have stayed at home to look after children or through ill health or you may want an unequal split if you inherited money during the marriage
We won't split up – according to ONS statistics, nearly half of marriages end in divorce. Saying you don’t need a prenup because you won't split up is a bit like saying you don’t need critical illness coverage or a Lasting Power of Attorney because you don’t think you will fall ill. Hopefully, you are right to be positive but insurance, LPAs and prenups all give peace of mind
The status of prenups in divorce proceedings
Our prenuptial agreement lawyers had thought research would show that people would think a prenup wasn’t worth it as it isn’t legally binding but that did not come out as a major reason not to sign an agreement. It's true that under current English family law, a prenuptial agreement isn’t automatically legally binding on a husband and wife at the time of any future divorce proceedings but the agreement will carry significant (potentially full weight) if safeguards are met.
The safeguards are:
Fairness - the terms of the agreement are fair to both of you – that’s why you need a prenup solicitor to advise you on the contents
Timing -the agreement is signed a few weeks before the marriage
Understanding - you both understood what you were signing up for and there was no coercion
Knowledge- you both provided financial disclosure to help you decide if the agreement was fair
Advice – you both took independent advice from family law solicitors
If you didn’t sign a prenup before your marriage you can remedy that now by signing a postnuptial or after marriage agreement. Our relationship agreement lawyers will carefully advise you on the type of agreement you need and the options for what to include in it. We will then provide sensitive advice to help you finalise and sign off on your agreement.
For prenuptial or postnuptial agreement advice call our team of specialist family lawyers or complete our online enquiry form.
Robin Charrot
Feb 05, 2025
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5 minute read

North West Family Law Solicitors Can Help You Reach a Financial Settlement With Private Financial Dispute Resolution
When you separate from a husband or wife you need to reach an agreement over what happens to the house and to decide how your assets are split. Until you do so your life can feel in limbo.
Our North West divorce solicitors focus on helping you reach a financial agreement that meets your needs. One way to do that is through a private financial dispute resolution.
Family lawyer, Robin Charrot, explains what a private financial dispute resolution is and why it may be the best solution for you.
For family law advice call our team of specialist divorce lawyers or complete our online enquiry form.
What is a financial dispute resolution hearing?
A financial dispute resolution hearing is a stage in the financial settlement court process.
Financial court proceedings follow a set path timetabled by the court:
Financial application sent to court by the husband or wife
The court issues the financial application and provides a court timetable
Form E financial disclosure by the husband and wife
First directions appointment hearing – a preliminary hearing
Court-ordered valuations, reports and further financial disclosure is obtained
Financial dispute resolution hearing – a settlement hearing
Final hearing (if required)
Step six, the financial dispute resolution (FDR) is a court or judge-led settlement hearing.
The FDR judge hears legal submissions from the representatives of the husband and wife. The FDR judge then says what they think a judge at the final hearing might order if the application had to go to the expense of a final hearing.
The financial dispute resolution hearing is designed to encourage a husband and wife to reach a financial settlement. Their financial agreement is made into a binding financial consent order by the FDR judge.
You cannot be forced into reaching a financial agreement at a court FDR. However, it may be in your best interests to do so to save money and to avoid the risk of your ending up with less after a final hearing. A negotiated compromise ensures that you walk away from court with a financial settlement that you are satisfied with rather than one that a judge imposes on you after hearing evidence at a final hearing.
If divorce lawyers can't negotiate an acceptable financial settlement for you at the FDR, they ask the FDR judge to list the financial application for a final hearing. The final hearing won't be listed before the judge who gave their settlement views at the FDR hearing. Any offers or concessions made at the FDR hearing cannot be brought to the judge’s attention at the final hearing.
Do you need a court financial dispute resolution hearing to reach a financial settlement?
You only need to start financial proceedings if you can't reach a financial agreement amicably. Ways to reach an agreed financial settlement include:
A private financial dispute resolution arranged outside of the court process
Solicitor negotiations
Roundtable meeting
Family mediation
Arbitration
Using the One Lawyer Service at Evolve Family Law
Reaching an agreement using collaborative law
Direct discussions between husband and wife
A family law solicitor can briefly discuss each option and recommend the one they think would be best for you. For example, if your ex won't give financial disclosure the recommendation will be to start financial court proceedings as the court can order financial disclosure and enforce the order.
What is a private financial dispute resolution?
A private financial dispute resolution is like a court-based financial dispute resolution hearing but instead of waiting for a court date, the FDR takes place with a private judge (a jointly appointed barrister) in their chambers or at another agreed venue.
In a private FDR, you and your husband or wife pay privately for the services of the FDR judge. In addition to these fees, you also pay the cost of your divorce solicitor and any barrister instructed on your behalf.
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Preparing for a private financial dispute resolution
You and your family law solicitor need to be well prepared for the private FDR to ensure that it has the best chance of helping you reach a financial settlement. This is achieved through:
Financial disclosure by husband and wife
Asking any extra relevant questions about the financial disclosure and getting answers
Any necessary valuations obtained. For example, a valuation of the family home, business or pensions
Any necessary reports obtained, such as on the tax implications of the sale or transfer of assets
Checking things like your housing needs, mortgage capacity, job prospects or other relevant factors
Looking at what you want to achieve from the private FDR so you go to it understanding the FDR process and knowing what you are prepared to compromise on and what your ‘bottom line’ is
What are the advantages of private financial dispute resolution over a court FDR hearing?
The advantages of a private FDR are:
A private FDR is quicker than a court FDR hearing. Court delays and backlogs mean there could be a substantial wait for a court hearing date. You may want to reach a decision quickly so you can sell the family home or shares in a family business
A private FDR is more civilised. At court, you may be negotiating outside the courtroom in the corridor because of a lack of interview rooms or feel rushed because the FDR judge has several other cases. That doesn’t happen with a private FDR. Improved facilities and time together with separate consultation rooms improve the prospects of your being able to reach a financial agreement
With a private FDR the divorce solicitors select the FDR judge. At a court-based FDR, you will be allocated a judge to hear the FDR. The judge at a court FDR may not have specialised in family law before becoming a part-time or full-time judge. In a private FDR, your divorce lawyers jointly select the person who will conduct the private FDR. This can be particularly helpful if there are complex aspects to your financial settlement or if you need your private FDR judge to have experience in a particular area of family law
What happens if you reach an agreement at a private financial dispute resolution?
If you reach a financial agreement over how to divide your assets at a private FDR your family lawyer will either prepare a document called a ‘heads of agreement’ or a draft financial court order.
The financial consent order will be sent to the family court for approval together with a financial statement of information. The statement of information gives the court sufficient information for the judge to decide whether to make the requested order. The court normally makes the agreed order without raising any questions and without the need for a court hearing.
Why do you need a financial court order after reaching an agreement at a private FDR?
You need a financial court order from the court after reaching an agreement at a private FDR for several reasons:
If your agreement includes pension sharing the pension administrator will require the sealed court order and final order of divorce before they can implement the pension sharing order
Some mortgage companies need a copy of a court order before they will agree to remove one spouse’s name from the mortgage. Alternatively, the mortgage company may require the order as proof that one spouse is receiving spousal maintenance and therefore has sufficient income for their planned borrowing
If the agreement cannot be implemented you need a financial court order to be able to apply to court to enforce what was agreed
If you have questions about financial settlements after a separation or divorce our specialist Northwest divorce solicitors can help guide you to reach a financial settlement and secure a financial court order.
For information on private financial dispute resolution hearings or advice on divorce or family law call our team of specialist divorce lawyers or complete our online enquiry form.
Robin Charrot
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7 minute read

How Many Marriages End in Divorce in the UK?
Statistically around half of marriages end in divorce in the UK. The information from the Office for National Statistics doesn’t tell the whole story though.
Our North West family law solicitors answer your questions on marriages ending in divorce in the UK.
For family law advice call our team of specialist divorce lawyers or complete our online enquiry form.
The ONS marriage and divorce statistics in the UK
The Office for National Statistics is the place for reliable marriage and divorce data. The website reveals that:
In 2021, there were 113,505 divorces granted in England and Wales
The divorce rate increased by 9.6% increase compared to the figures for 2020
Divorce rates in 2021 were 9.3 for men and 9.4 for women per 1,000 of the married population. These figures include same-sex marriages
In opposite-sex couples in 2021, females were more likely to start divorce proceedings than men. Just over 63% of divorce applications were started by women
For opposite-sex divorces in 2021, the average duration of marriage at divorce was 12.3 years
For couples married in 2011, less than 1 in 5 marriages end in divorce by the 10th wedding anniversary
Should we rely on the 2021 ONS divorce data?
The problem with relying on the ONS data is:
The latest figures are for 2021 and not 2024
The ONS statistics are for marriages but a large percentage of the population are in cohabiting relationships. Statistics for cohabitation relationship breakdown are not recorded
The headline data figures do not show regional variances but in the North West of England the place with the highest divorce rate in 2021 was Blackpool
The headline statistics of 113,505 divorces in 2021 do not indicate if the divorces were first, second or third marriages
Family court statistics
Family court statistics give us some statistical information for 2024. The family court figures for the period January to March 2024 reveal there were:
27,908 divorce applications made, equating to an 11% deduction from the same period in 2023
21,662 final orders of divorce granted, equating to an increase of 19% from the same period in the previous year
Starting divorce proceedings in 2025
Although the historical 2021 statistics show a rise in divorce proceedings the reality is that if you are in the difficult position of applying for a divorce in 2025 then the statistics will mean very little to you. Your focus will be on navigating your divorce.
With the introduction of no-fault divorce, the court proceedings are streamlined and less adversarial. You no longer have to say that your ex-spouse behaved unreasonably or committed adultery. However, a divorce still takes around six months to obtain. That’s because court rules require gaps at two stages in the divorce process to give time for reflection. Those gaps can't be avoided.
Two of the main divorce stressors are not the decision to start divorce proceedings but:
Reaching an agreement on the parenting arrangements for your children
Dividing your assets, reaching a financial settlement and obtaining a financial court order
Our divorce solicitors can guide you through the no-fault divorce process. We can also help you reach a parenting agreement and financial settlement. It's important that the childcare arrangement is recorded in a parenting plan and your financial settlement gets converted into a binding financial court order.
Reaching an agreement on parenting or your finances does not necessarily mean that you must apply to the court for a child arrangement order or ask the court to make a financial court order. Our North West family lawyers can help you through:
Legal advice in between family mediation sessions
Converting a memorandum of agreement negotiated during family mediation into a binding court order
Helping you reach an agreement through our one-lawyer divorce service
Assisting you resolve parenting or financial issues through family arbitration
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Divorce consultations
You may be worried about the legal aspects of your divorce. Many people have questions about:
Should they start the divorce proceedings or allow their spouse to do so?
Can they stay in the family home after they start the divorce proceedings?
Will the children have to be co-parented on a 50/50 basis and how will that work practically with jobs and other commitments?
Will a 50/50 parenting arrangement affect child support?
Will spousal maintenance be payable and for how long?
Who will keep the family home?
Will they be able to get a mortgage on their own so they can buy another house?
Can they keep their inheritance, pension or business?
Will the prenuptial agreement stop their ex-spouse from making any claims?
If the children don’t want to see a parent, will the children be forced by the court into a 50/50 split of their time between both parents' homes?
Will the children be able to continue in private education after the separation? Who will have to pay the school fees?
Our specialist family lawyers can answer all your questions. We may not be able to answer them all at the first meeting as we may need more information about things, such as the transfer value of the pension or your potential earnings capacity if a situation where you are worried about whether you will be able to get a mortgage or rehouse yourself without spousal maintenance payments.
Relationship breakdown initial review
At Evolve Family Law, our experts understand that you want and need answers to your questions, including pressing questions about whether your ex will have to pay the mortgage if they leave the family home.
We provide a relationship breakdown consultation for a fixed fee. This involves one meeting with a qualified lawyer regarding all legal and practical aspects of your separation and advice. If you decide that you would like us to start divorce proceedings on your behalf there is a separate divorce fixed fee. We also try to offer fixed-fee services for other legal services, such as converting your financial settlement into a binding financial court order or making a new Will after your separation.
All our experienced family law solicitors are committed to helping you through your divorce proceedings and assisting you in reaching a parenting agreement and financial settlement as quickly as possible.
For family law advice call our team of specialist divorce lawyers or complete our online enquiry form.
Robin Charrot
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6 minute read
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