How you cope with a divorce is one of those questions that no-one, whether they’re a specialist divorce solicitor or a friend or relative who has been through their own divorce or relationship breakdown, can fully answer. That’s because only you know how you can best cope with your divorce. In this blog we look at some of the things that have helped others to cope with divorce and may be helpful. Coping With Divorce We all cope with life’s challenges in different ways, whether it is redundancy, bereavement or facing a major illness. Divorce is in many ways similar as you and your family are experiencing loss. That’s the case whether or not you are the one who wants to initiate the divorce proceedings and file for divorce or if you feel completely taken aback and ambushed by your husband or wife's decision to separate. [related_posts] Coping with divorce isn’t easy especially when people say that you haven’t been married long and therefore assume that you shouldn’t be upset by your divorce or when friends make comments such as ‘’there are other fish in the sea’’.  Most people want to deflect attention from themselves when asked ‘’how are you?’’ but one way of coping with a divorce is to give an honest answer. There are lots of other things that you can do to cope with divorce, such as: Take some legal advice - often people are not just worried about their divorce but the risk that the children will move to live with their husband or wife and they won't see the children on a daily basis or how they will manage financially after the divorce. Often the big question is ‘’will I get to stay in the family home’’. The sooner you get some answers to those questions the better you will feel as then you will have an idea of what the future holds for you rather than worrying without knowing your divorce rights Tell your divorce solicitor how you feel - divorce solicitors aren’t counsellors but they can put you in touch with individual or family therapists who will be able to help you. Also, if you feel strongly about something, whether it is keeping your business or your pension or being able to see your children on your birthday, then tell your solicitor as once they know what is important to you then they can act on that Don’t listen to too many people- when you are getting divorced it can feel as if everyone is an expert, from your mother and best friend who both think that you shouldn’t get divorced to your work colleague and circle of friends and aunt who not only are encouraging you to get divorced and to take your husband or wife ‘’to the cleaners’’ but are also telling you that you will get to keep the family home, the family business and your pension. That’s normally because they say they did or they know a friend of a friend who did. Everyone’s financial and personal circumstances are different and it is easy to get overwhelmed by too much well-meaning advice Don’t rush or delay - telling you to not rush but don’t delay may sound a bit perverse but from a divorce solicitor’s perspective you should not rush into divorce proceedings until you have had chance to think things through. Equally though, it can be harmful to you to delay making decisions because you will remain in limbo. That’s why it is important to strike the right balance and not feel rushed or pressurised into making decisions but on the other hand not allow things to drift so you remain in a situation that isn’t good for you Tell your divorce solicitor if you have questions or don’t understand - whether you don’t understand the divorce process, the meaning and terms of a child arrangements order or the implications of a financial court order and pension sharing order on your future pension contributions then tell your divorce solicitor. Many people are embarrassed to ask questions and that just leads to more anxiety. A divorce solicitor wants to help you cope with your divorce and therefore wants to answer your questions. Everyone has different questions so don’t be afraid to ask yours Think about yourself - when you are getting divorced all your attention may be focused on how your children are coping with the news of the separation or how your husband or wife has reacted to the news that you believe that the marriage has broken down or how your mother will come to terms with your divorce. Whilst thinking of others is important it is also necessary to think about yourself so you don’t reach a financial settlement based on the fact that the children want you to stay in the family home when they are already at university and you hate the house or agree a financial court order that gives your husband or wife a large financial settlement because you feel guilty about the separation and haven’t thought through the long term consequences for you, for example, in terms of your ability to buy a decent house or to fund your retirement.   Coping with divorce can be made easier with the right help and support and that can be provided through a combination of friends and family as well as professionals such as therapists, your doctor or divorce solicitor. The best help to cope with your divorce can't be packaged as we are all different but one of the most important ways to cope with your divorce is to take time out, away from the pressures of home and work life and children, to think about what help you need, whether it is practical, emotional or legal. Our Manchester and Cheshire Divorce Solicitors The friendly team of specialist divorce solicitors at Evolve Family Law can help you with your separation and divorce proceedings, as well as child custody and contact and your financial settlement. For advice on your family and private client law needs call us or complete our online enquiry form.   The Evolve Family Law offices are located in Whitefield, North Manchester and Holmes Chapel, Cheshire but we also offer remote meetings by appointment by video call or telephone.

When I am leaving the office after a busy day as a Manchester family lawyer I sometimes ponder where the day went as it doesn’t seem five minutes since I was opening the office up as part of my morning routine. That’s when my thoughts turned to answering a popular internet search question ‘what do family lawyers do?’ What is family law? To understand what a family lawyer does you need to know what family law entails. Most people assume that being a Manchester family lawyer is all about drafting divorce proceedings but that certainly isn’t the case as that is only one very small aspect of working life in family law.   Family law is something that you will probably come across in your life. That’s not a negative as many aspects of family law are a positive experience for families, such as: Buying your first house and asking a family lawyer to prepare a cohabitation agreement Getting engaged to marry and signing a prenuptial agreement so both you and your fiancé have peace of mind Having your first child through adoption or surrogacy and asking the family lawyer to secure an adoption order or parental order for your family.   Even something that can be a very negative and a traumatic life experience can end up with a positive outcome with the help of a family solicitor. For example: Separating from a partner and with the help of a family solicitor either agreeing a parenting plan for your child or securing a child arrangements order so that you and your child can enjoy an ongoing relationship with one another Getting the help you need to leave an abusive relationship with a controlling or violent partner through obtaining a non-molestation or occupation injunction order thus enabling you to make a fresh start and put a bad relationship behind you Going through the heartache of your child being taken abroad by the child’s other parent and through use of child abduction and children law proceedings securing the return of your child to the UK Separating from a husband or wife and not knowing where you stand financially and how you will achieve financial independence. Through financial disclosure gaining a better understanding of the family finances and securing a financial court order so that you can move into a new family home Meeting a new partner after a separation or divorce and asking your family lawyer to prepare a cohabitation agreement or a prenuptial agreement so that you can enter your new relationship confident that you have the right paperwork in place to protect you and your family.   These are just some of the things that family lawyers do. Family lawyers do tend to get a bad press on the basis that it is thought that they encourage warring parents and divorcing couples to go to court but that isn’t the case. There are many alternatives to making an application to court, such as: Solicitor negotiations with any financial agreement being converted into a separation agreement or an agreed financial consent order (without the need for anyone to go to court) Family mediation support so that if you are able to reach an agreement in family mediation your Memorandum of Understanding is converted into an agreed financial consent order with no need to physically go to a court hearing to secure the court order Family arbitration – this can be quicker and more flexible than traditional court proceedings. [related_posts] However, there will also be some family situations where urgent court applications are necessary. For example: If you are in an abusive relationship and you need the protection of an injunction order You are worried that your child is at risk of child abduction or will be taken abroad to live without your agreement You are concerned that your husband or wife is not giving financial disclosure of the family assets or is selling or transferring assets and that if you do nothing you won't receive a fair financial settlement. In that scenario a financial court application needs to be made to protect yours and your children’s best interests.   One thing that is certainly true is that no one day is ever the same in the life of a family lawyer; Monday could involve negotiating and drafting an international prenuptial agreement whilst Tuesday might be spent in court securing an injunction, financial or children law order. As for Wednesday, who knows? ​ Our Manchester and Cheshire Family Lawyers To speak to Robin Charrot at Evolve Family Law about any aspect of family law,  from separation and divorce proceedings, reaching a financial settlement or resolving child custody and contact  call Evolve Family Law or complete our online enquiry form. Our offices are located in Whitefield, North Manchester and Holmes Chapel, Cheshire but remote meetings by appointment by video call or telephone are also offered.

There are no right or wrong answers to what you should or should not do during a separation as your personal and financial circumstances are individual to you, but in this article we give some general guidance about what it’s best not to do during a separation. Why Are You Separating? The question ‘why are you separating?’ is relevant to what you should or should not do during your separation. That’s because if your separation is a trial separation it’s important not to take any steps that mean it is less likely that you will get back together, such as: Refusing to agree contact arrangements with the children or not attending the family home for agreed contact with the children    Not turning up to pre-arranged Relate or counselling sessions or telling your partner that they are a waste of time before you give the sessions a chance Saying that you won't go to individual counselling sessions, for example, to address anger management issues  Taking all the money out of a joint account without your partner’s agreement or advance knowledge Refusing to pay towards household bills or child support (despite your being in a financial position to do so) because you think that if your husband or wife finds it hard to manage financially without you then the family are more likely to get back together Imposing an unrealistic timetable on the trial separation, for example, saying that your partner has to decide if you are going to get back together or not within two weeks Following your partner or sending numerous text or social media messages so they end up feeling overwhelmed by you  Contacting your partner’s family or friends to try to get them to influence your husband, wife or partner to reconcile with you.   If your partner wants a trial separation it is easy to feel angry about their decision if the news that the relationship is in trouble came as a complete surprise to you and to let your feelings sabotage the trial separation.   Many couples who are going through a trial separation think that they should not take specialist legal advice to look at their options but taking legal advice can be a sensible thing to do because then you will know if you or your spouse have the grounds to start divorce proceedings and the likely financial settlement and child care arrangements. That information may influence your thought process. Importantly, your discussion with a divorce solicitor is completely confidential to you and the fact that you have consulted a divorce solicitor does not have to be disclosed to your husband or wife. They too may have taken family law advice but also taken the decision to say nothing about taking legal advice until you decide on whether you are going to be able to reconcile or not.   If you are desperate to make the trial separation work and to reconcile with your husband or wife it can be tempting to ignore warning bells. You should not do that but instead you should take legal advice. Warning bells include: Your husband or wife taking large amounts out of savings or investment accounts Your husband or wife looking to take out loans against the family home – this is especially concerning if the family home is registered in their sole name. This can be prevented if you register a notice with the land registry Your husband or wife asks you to leave the family home part way through the trial separation or it becomes apparent that they are planning to sell the family home – even if the family home is owned in their sole name there are steps that you can take to protect yourself Your husband or wife selling assets or transferring property, such as shares in a family business, to a family member Your husband or wife asking you to sign a postnuptial agreement  Your husband or wife appearing to be making plans to relocate overseas with the children.    Any of these warning bells, or anything else of concern to you, means you should quickly take specialist legal advice rather than trust that the trial separation is a genuine attempt to repair your relationship whilst you both give one another a bit of space.  [related_posts] What should you not do if a separation is permanent?  If you know that your separation is permanent or you tried a trial separation and that hasn’t worked out then it is often assumed that it is ‘no holds barred’ once you know that your separation is permanent. However, divorce solicitors say that approach can be counterproductive and result in it being harder for you to reach an agreement over childcare arrangements or a financial settlement and end up in your spending more in legal fees.   If your separation is permanent then generally you should not: Leave the family home before first taking legal advice – it may be preferable for your partner to leave instead of you or you may be able to get an injunction order requiring them to leave  Reach an agreement on childcare arrangements or a financial settlement without first taking legal advice – that’s because if you agree to something that isn’t in your best interests during direct discussions with your husband or wife it is then far harder to get them to accept a fairer childcare or financial arrangement Stop contact between the children and other parent because you are angry about your husband or wife's behaviour. Contact should only be stopped after legal advice and if there are child care safety or other child related issues Feel rushed into starting divorce proceedings because of pressure from family or friends to do so Start divorce proceedings without either you or your divorce solicitor first informing your husband or wife of your intention to do so. That is because unless the situation is urgent it is normally better to let your partner know about the planned divorce proceedings as that reduces animosity and makes it easier for you to reach a financial settlement or agree on child custody and contact arrangements.     Every separation is different and everyone reacts differently to a separation. That’s why there are no hard and fast rules on what you should or should not do if you separate from a partner or spouse. One of the best things that you can do is ensure that you are not rushed into making decisions and have the information you need to make informed decisions. A divorce solicitor can help you with that whether your separation is a trial separation or a permanent separation.   How can Evolve Family Law help you?    The friendly and approachable divorce solicitors at Evolve Family Law talk to people who don’t know whether they want to separate or not as well as to husbands or wives who are very clear that divorce proceedings are the right path for them. Experienced family solicitors can help provide information on your separation options so that you make the best choices for you and your family. Our Manchester and Cheshire Family and Divorce Solicitors Evolve Family Law provides legal help with separation and divorce proceedings, as well as temporary financial arrangements and long term financial settlements, child custody and contact and private client matters. For legal assistance with your family and private client law needs call Evolve Family Law or complete our online enquiry form. The Evolve Family Law offices are located in Whitefield, North Manchester and Holmes Chapel, Cheshire but we also offer remote meetings by appointment by video call or telephone.

Did you know that almost forty percent of people questioned admit to keeping money secrets from their partner? That information comes from a survey conducted by the Money & Pensions Service. In this blog we look at keeping money secrets during a separation or divorce. What the Money & Pensions Service Survey Reveals About Us The Money and Pensions Service survey questioned 5,200 people across the country about their financial habits and personal finances. The key findings are: Those in the age range 25-34 are the most secretive age group, with three in five not revealing financial details to loved ones Whilst nearly twenty five percent of those surveyed thought their husband, wife or partner was hiding financial things the reality is that nearly half said that they had hidden things themselves It is most common to hide credit cards and credit card debt – nearly forty percent of those replying to the survey had done so Undisclosed loans are the second most popular thing to hide from family with just over twenty per cent of those surveyed doing so Around twenty percent of those responding to the survey had a secret savings account.   As the Money and Pensions Service acknowledged there are many reasons why someone might hide money or not reveal their financial situation whilst in a relationship, such as: Wanting to build up a safety net of savings that their partner won't spend. That way there is a rainy day savings fund in case of redundancy or a large unforeseen bill, such as replacing the boiler Feeling the need to save money so that there is an escape route from an abusive relationship where the partner secreting the money is afraid that without hidden money if it will be impossible to leave their controlling partner  Hiding credit card debt or loans because you know that your partner will worry about the debts Feelings of embarrassment of having incurred debt, sometimes the debt was incurred before the new relationship and it now feels ‘too late’ to mention it.   The Money and Pensions Service encourages people to talk about their finances as, by doing so, it can make money worries more manageable, especially when you are concerned about other matters such as redundancy or the impact of Covid-19 on the prospects of your getting a 2020 bonus from your employer. [related_posts] Financial secrets and separation and divorce   As Manchester divorce solicitors we have to ask about financial matters so we can give the best advice on financial settlement options. Sometimes people are reluctant to mention undisclosed credit card debts or loans as their husband or wife doesn’t know about them. However, it is important that you do so as those debts may affect your ability to take over the mortgage on the family home or to secure another mortgage to buy a new property.    In cases where there is debt then in financial settlement court proceedings the court rarely wants to undertake a forensic exercise into how the debt was incurred and whether, for example, you should have bought the shoes or motorbike but instead will ask: Is the debt family debt – in other words whilst the debt was hidden from a husband or wife was the loan or credit card money used for the benefit of the family. For example, a credit card was used to clothe the family or to pay for family holidays or a family car What impact does the debt have? The court will want to know if the debt will stop a husband or wife from being able to buy another house or stay in the family home or meet their other needs.   In addition to debt and divorce, when it comes to financial disclosure on separation or divorce there is an obligation to provide what is referred to as full and frank financial disclosure of all your assets. That includes secret bank accounts that your husband or wife doesn’t know anything about or money given to a family member to ‘hold’ for you or cash that you keep.    Failure to provide full and frank financial disclosure may mean you are less likely to reach a financial settlement by agreement as your husband or wife probably won't believe your financial disclosure or a court drawing inferences or making findings against you in a financial settlement court hearing. For example, if your family business generates cash but according to your accounts you receive an income that amounts to less than your essential outgoings (mortgage payments, utility bills or other known expenditure) then the court could make inferences or findings against you.   Therefore, whilst there may be many reasons why you would want to keep things secret during a relationship, when it comes to a separation or divorce there is a court imposed obligation to be both ‘full and frank’ in your financial disclosure. We are Manchester and Cheshire Divorce and Financial Settlement Solicitors Evolve Family Law specialises in family law and divorce and financial settlements. If you have questions and need advice on your divorce and financial settlement options call Evolve Family Lawor complete our online enquiry form. We offer face to face appointments, remote meetings by appointment by video call or telephone.

Evolve Family Law is delighted to announce that it is expanding its Holmes Chapel, Cheshire office and Whitefield, North Manchester offices with the recruitment of experienced family and private client paralegal, Amber Morgan, in Holmes Chapel and specialist family law solicitor, Bethany Davies, in Whitefield. The continued growth in both offices is down to the rise in family law and private client enquiries in both Cheshire and Whitefield. At Evolve Family Law our ambition is to be seen as the ‘go to’ specialist family and private client law firm and with this continued growth we are proud to be establishing our reputation as one of Cheshire and North Manchester’s best and most trusted law firms.. Family and private client solicitors Evolve Family Law specialises in divorce proceedings, reaching financial settlements after a separation, resolving child custody and contact as well as private client matters. For help with your family and private client law needs call Evolve Family Law or complete our online enquiry form.   We are open and following the current government guidelines regarding appointments. When government guidance states that we can open our Covid-secure offices in Holmes Chapel and Whitefield these will be available for pre-booked appointments for those who wish to visit us. We will also offer remote appointments via phone and video call for those who prefer this option. When government guidance recommends work from home we will be doing so and will continue to offer remote appointments to our current and prospective clients. About solicitor Bethany Davies Bethany Davies combines an impressive legal pedigree with local connections to North Manchester. Partner, Robin Charrot, believes that is a winning combination for Bethany’s success at Evolve’s Whitefield office.   Bethany qualified as a solicitor in 2018 and since qualification she has specialised in family law with a renowned national law firm, working from its Manchester city centre offices. Her experience means she’s confident in resolving emotionally charged children law disputes and applying herself to the legal intricacies involved in complex financial court proceedings.   Bethany Davies has a particular interest in financial claims after a separation or divorce. Her experience includes: Representing high profile individuals in TOLATA and schedule 1 financial claims involving unmarried families with children and complicated litigation Divorce and financial proceedings involving pre-marriage acquired assets and inherited wealth Complex financial court proceedings centring upon divorce and business assets and company valuations Preparation of separation, prenuptial and postnuptial agreements Children law and child arrangements order applications including cases where parental alienation was alleged requiring detailed investigation and assessment by the court.   About paralegal Amber Morgan Amber Morgan combines substantial legal experience with local connections to Holmes Chapel, Cheshire.  Partner, Louise Halford, says that Evolve Family Law are fortunate to welcome Amber to its Holmes Chapel office with Amber’s seven years’ experience of working in the legal sector and her wealth of practical and legal experience.   Amber Morgan’s experience in family and private client includes: Divorce proceedings Organising financial consent orders as part of divorce proceedings Securing court orders for unmarried families Representation in injunction and children law applications Will instructions and preparation Lasting Powers of Attorney Assisting with probate and the administration of estates including the issue of the grant of probate, inheritance tax forms, estate accounts and distribution of monies to beneficiaries.   Robin Charrot says: ‘I am delighted to welcome Bethany Davies and Amber Morgan to the team at Evolve Family Law. They are both great additions to our Whitefield, North Manchester and Holmes Chapel, Cheshire offices with their local connections, legal expertise and ‘can do attitude’ with an empathetic approach to their work. These are important attributes at Evolve Family Law as our ethos is all about offering our clients an excellent legal service at transparent cost pricing during what can be a difficult period in clients’ lives. The addition of Bethany and Amber means that Evolve can continue its ambitious plans for 2021 and offer expert and approachable family and private client legal advice from our North West offices’. ​ How can Evolve Family Law help? For help with your family and private client law needs call Evolve Family Law or complete our online enquiry form. We are open and following the current government guidelines regarding appointments. When government guidance states that we can open our Covid-secure offices in Holmes Chapel and Whitefield these will be available for pre-booked appointments for those who wish to visit us. We will also offer remote appointments via phone and video call for those who prefer this option. When government guidance recommends work from home we will be doing so and will continue to offer remote appointments to our current and prospective clients. [related_posts]

If divorce proceedings are started against you in England then you can contest the divorce. However, our Manchester divorce solicitors say that there are two points to consider when deciding whether to contest a divorce. First, even though you may want to contest the divorce, it isn’t always the best option. Second, the government is bringing in divorce reforms and that means in autumn 2021 the grounds for divorce proceedings will change and you will no longer be able to contest divorce proceedings. In this blog we look at how you can currently contest divorce proceedings and the planned change in divorce law. Contesting Divorce Proceedings If you receive a divorce petition in the post your immediate reaction may be to tell your husband or wife that you will be contesting the divorce proceedings. That is an understandable reaction if you are upset or angry about the separation or if you are hurt by the contents of the divorce petition. However, if you want to contest divorce proceedings it is best to take urgent legal advice from a specialist divorce solicitor because: Court rules impose a time limit within which you have to complete a form saying whether you are going to contest the divorce proceedings or not Instead of contesting the divorce you may find that it is a better option to get your husband or wife to amend the contents of their divorce petition If you are worried that the allegations in the divorce petition will affect your child arrangements order application or your financial settlement proceedings then you can agree that whilst you won't defend the divorce proceedings you don’t accept the truth of the allegations contained in the divorce petition and that you will defend the allegations if they are raised in either the children or financial court proceedings The divorce petition may include a claim that you pay your husband or wife's costs in connection with the divorce. This cost claim doesn’t cover any legal advice received by your husband or wife in relation to financial or children law aspects of your separation. If you negotiate you can either agree to each pay your own divorce proceedings costs or to pay a fixed contribution or an agreed amount in divorce costs.   If your divorce solicitor doesn’t recommend that you contest the divorce proceedings it isn’t because they think that the allegations in the divorce petition are true or that you won't win but because they will be concerned that: The money spent in legal fees in contesting the divorce proceedings might be better spent on other legal expenses (such as the priority of getting the child arrangements order you want or the best financial settlement for you) or in paying for a holiday or other item for you Even if you successfully contest the divorce proceedings your husband or wife could issue new divorce proceedings in autumn 2021 and you won't be able to contest those divorce proceedings. All you may have achieved is a delay in the divorce or a divorce on different grounds. This may be worth the legal costs of contested divorce proceedings to you but specialist Manchester divorce solicitors will want to flag up the issues and your alternative options and advise on if delay is in your best financial interests. [related_posts] The current divorce law At present, if a husband or wife wants to get divorced the petitioner applying for the divorce has to show that the marriage has irretrievably broken down because of one of five facts: Adultery or Unreasonable behaviour or Two years separation with the consent of a husband or wife or Five years separation or Desertion. If you are being accused of adultery or unreasonable behaviour it is natural to want to contest the divorce proceedings. You can do so either because: You agree that the marriage has broken down irretrievably but you don’t accept the adultery or unreasonable behaviour allegations or You don’t accept that your marriage has irretrievably broken down. When deciding whether or not to contest divorce proceedings it helps to know that if adultery is alleged in a divorce petition the adultery doesn’t have to be the cause of the marriage breakdown and it could have occurred many years after the separation took place. What is the contested divorce process? The process of getting divorced is similar whether it is an agreed divorce or a contested divorce. If your divorce is agreed then you won't need to attend a court hearing in connection with your divorce and you will only have to go to court if you need a child arrangements order or a financial court order. If you can agree the child care arrangements and the financial settlement you probably won't need to go to court at all as the court can be asked to approve an agreed financial consent order without the need for a court hearing.   The main differences between agreed and contested divorces are: In a contested divorce you will need to attend court and at the final hearing of the divorce proceedings you will need to give evidence In a contested divorce the divorce case will take a lot longer to determine. An agreed divorce can be achieved in about four to five months. A contested divorce will take a lot longer because of the need to obtain court hearings and limited court hearing availability A contested divorce will cost a lot more in legal fees and if you lose the case you may be ordered to pay your husband or wife's divorce costs. Those costs night be the same amount or more than your own divorce costs.   The contested divorce process involves: The husband or wife who starts the divorce proceedings (the petitioner) sending a divorce petition and other documents to court The divorce court issuing the divorce proceedings and sending a copy of the divorce petition to you (the respondent) You filling in an acknowledgement form stating that you want to contest the divorce proceedings. There is a time limit to complete this form You filing a document (called an answer) saying why you oppose a divorce. There is a time limit to file the answer The petitioner can then chose to submit a document called a response to your answer The divorce court lists the divorce proceedings for a directions hearing to decide what orders are needed so that the contested divorce proceedings can be listed for a final hearing At the final hearing of the contested divorce, the judge decides if the petitioner is entitled to a divorce. If so, the decree nisi of divorce is pronounced. The decree nisi does not finalise the divorce proceedings as you have to wait for the decree absolute of divorce for the divorce to be made final Just over six weeks from the date of the decree nisi the petitioner can apply for decree absolute of divorce to end the marriage.   Remember that because of the change in divorce law all you are doing by contesting the divorce proceedings is delaying the divorce as eventually the petitioner will be able to secure a divorce under the new divorce law. In addition a divorce lawyer may recommend that it is in your best financial interests to go ahead with a divorce as quickly as you can because it isn’t until the decree nisi of divorce that the court can make a financial court order, either by agreement or after a contested court hearing. In some family scenarios the timing of the financial court order can be crucial and affect the size of your financial settlement.   What is no fault divorce? The government has brought in new divorce law for no fault or no blame divorce proceedings. Divorce solicitors say that this has led to an increase in enquiries about contesting divorce proceedings now as people think that they might be better off forcing their husband or wife to wait until about autumn 2021 when they can start no fault divorce proceedings. Often that isn’t the case.   In summary the no fault divorce proceedings mean that: A husband or wife can decide to start the divorce proceedings jointly or, if they prefer, one of them can commence the divorce proceedings In a no fault divorce you can't contest the divorce proceedings Instead of having to prove adultery, unreasonable behaviour or separation to get your divorce all a petitioner needs to show is that the marriage has irretrievably broken down by providing a statement of irretrievable breakdown A no fault divorce will take a minimum time of six months from the start of the divorce petition to the decree absolute of divorce. This six month period isn’t because of court delays but to allow time for reflection before the decree absolute of divorce is pronounced.   Manchester divorce solicitors say that most couples, under the current divorce law, are able to avoid contested divorce proceedings after taking specialist legal advice on their options and the implications of contesting the divorce, leaving the couple to focus on resolving child custody and contact and their financial settlement and financial court order. Manchester and Cheshire Divorce Solicitors Manchester and Cheshire based Evolve Family Law solicitors specialise in divorce proceedings, children law and financial settlements. If you need advice about contested divorce proceedings or on any other aspect of family law call us or complete our online enquiry form. Our offices in Holmes Chapel, Cheshire and Whitefield, Manchester are open with social distances measures in place for face to face meetings, however an appointment is required. We also offer remote meetings by appointment by video call or telephone for those who prefer not to travel.

As divorce and family law solicitors based in Holmes Chapel, Cheshire and Whitefield, North Manchester, the latest research from the Legal Services Board was of particular interest to the Evolve Family Law divorce team. At Evolve Family Law we have long thought that ‘‘North is best’’ and the official research seems to agree with us. In this blog we look at the latest Legal Services Board research findings and what they mean for those of you needing divorce, family law or private client help. Divorce and family law fees Research published by the UK Legal Services Board on the cost of divorce and Wills has confirmed what many Manchester and Cheshire solicitors thought, namely that legal advice is generally twenty percent cheaper in the north of England compared to legal fees in the south of England. The official research has revealed that divorce firms based in London are on average a third more expensive than those based outside London.   Manchester divorce solicitors say that the Legal Services Board research has confirmed that there really is a north-south divide when it comes to legal fees. Some may question the quality of what you get ‘’up north’’ or think that the mantra that ‘’you get what you pay for’’ must be right but the Legal Services Board research does not indicate that there is any difference in the quality of the family law legal advice that you receive depending on the location or postcode of your divorce and family law solicitor.   Divorce and fixed fees It is always hard to judge if you are getting value for money with a fixed fee divorce or family law or Will package. However, the Legal Services Board research reveals that divorce law firms who offer fixed prices are on average over a third cheaper than those law firms where estimates of costs are given.   At Evolve Family Law we are committed to transparency on costs and providing as much information online about our fixed fees and pricing. Our cost guide can be accessed here. We also welcome calls to discuss potential legal fees. [related_posts] Should I shop around for a divorce solicitor? The Legal Services Board advises that those with a legal problem shop around and check out potential legal fees. According to the LSB only a fifth of those needing legal advice currently look around and check out fees before committing to instructing a solicitor.   The chair of the Legal Services Board, Dr Helen Phillips has stated: ‘‘Whether buying a home, getting divorced, or making a will, we encourage people to shop around to find a good value deal that meets their needs. Unless they shop around, people risk paying far more than they need to. Where people don’t feel they need to deal with a lawyer face to face, they could make considerable savings by using providers in parts of the country where prices are cheaper.’’   The legal advice price research was commissioned jointly by the Legal Services Board, the Competition and Markets Authority and the Ministry of Justice. The research involved interviewing 1,500 legal businesses in England and Wales and included a spread of legal firms across different types of legal provider and in different locations across the country.   Is a good divorce solicitor all about price? At Evolve Family Law, whilst we believe in transparency on legal costs and fixed fees, we also recognise that choosing a divorce solicitor or a Will or probate solicitor isn’t just about the legal fees. You need to be able to feel confident that your solicitor will listen to you and will offer you the guidance you need so you can make informed choices, whether that is about a child arrangements order application for your children or a divorce financial settlement.   Evolve Family Law recommend that in addition to looking at online information about price structures that you speak to a solicitor to make sure that you can form a trusting relationship and work together. Don’t worry about distances as divorce, Will and probate solicitors offer appointments by video conferencing, Skype or by telephone appointment. Most family law clients say that speaking to their chosen divorce solicitor in the comfort of their home is more relaxing, and according to the latest Legal Services Board research, it could also result in you achieving considerable savings in legal fees. How can Evolve Family Law solicitors help you? For legal help with any aspect of family or private client law, from divorce and separation advice to child arrangements order applications or representation in financial settlement and  financial court order proceedings, negotiating a prenuptial agreement or the preparation of your Will or Lasting Power of Attorney call Evolve Family Law or complete our online enquiry form to set up a meeting, video conference or telephone appointment.

As Manchester divorce and family finance solicitors advising separated couples, we think getting divorced and trying to sell your family home during a global pandemic is a lot to expect of anyone. It isn’t therefore surprising that many of the calls that we’re currently receiving are from husbands or wives concerned about if or how they can get divorced and sell the family home. In this blog we look at the issues and your best options when it comes to divorce and selling the family home. Online Family Law Divorce and Financial Settlement Solicitors Manchester and Cheshire based Evolve Family Law solicitors specialise in divorce and financial settlements. If you need advice about a financial settlement and the family home or any other aspect of family law call Evolve Family Law on 0345 222 8 222 or complete our online enquiry form to set up a video conference or telephone appointment.Should I sell the family home? Sadly, some divorcing couples don’t have a choice: the family home has to be sold. For others you can make the financial or personal choice to either sell up, transfer the property to your husband or wife or keep the property yourself.   Often people have a strong knee jerk reaction that they must keep the family home at all costs whilst others are equally adamant that they don’t want to stay in the family home because of the memories associated with it. Undoubtedly selling a family home and moving involves hassle but it is best to consider all your options and the practicalities of a move, such as: How much is the family home worth and how much would I need to spend to buy a suitable new property? If I stay at the family home would the mortgage company agree to transfer the mortgage into my name? If I sell and buy another property what is the maximum mortgage that I could get? Can I afford the monthly mortgage payments on the family home after taking into account any spousal maintenance or child support paid or received? Is it better to make a fresh start and take advantage of the stamp duty holiday? Will my husband or wife agree to the sale of the family home?   The effect of Covid-19 on your decision to sell the family home Experienced family law solicitors encourage separating couples to look at whether they should sell the family home or not from a short and long term perspective so that you make the right decision for you and your family. However, it is inevitable that Covid-19 may have some influence on your decision making process because: You are worried about house prices and achieving your sale price You are concerned about getting the mortgage on the family home transferred to you or taking out a mortgage on a new property if you don’t feel that your job is secure or you are worried that your husband or wife is at risk of being made redundant and redundancy will affect their ability to pay you child support and spousal maintenance You want to take advantage of the stamp duty holiday as you think that it will be easier to sell the family home during the period of the stamp duty holiday and you will save money on your purchase.   With or without the pressures of Covid-19 the decision to sell the family home, or resolving which one of you should stay at the family home, is always a stressful decision. That is why it is best to take time over your decision and not be too influenced by the views of teenage children who may be leaving home to go to university soon leaving you with a house that is too large for you and without sufficient money to pay for life’s luxuries such as holidays. Alternatively, you could end up with the family home but the trade-off is that you don’t get a share of your husband or wife's pension so you eventually have to sell the family home to fund your retirement. However, the released equity on the sale of the family home won't necessarily give you the same income return that a pension sharing order would have done.   Manchester divorce lawyers recognise that with the news all about Covid-19 and reports of localised Manchester and North West lockdowns it is tempting to decide what to do about your family home and your financial affairs based on your Covid-19 concerns. Family lawyers can help you look at all your options and factor in Covid-19 as just one consideration in your deliberations about what to do about your divorce and the family home.   The best way to divorce and sell the family home If you are getting divorced and thinking about selling the family home here are our tips on selling the family home whilst separating from a partner or getting divorced: Is it realistic for you both to live at the family home until it is sold bearing in mind that once the property is sold it will take time for the conveyancing process to reach completion? It is advisable to always take legal advice before leaving the family home as doing so may make your husband or wife less keen to achieve a sale. However, if the atmosphere at home is affecting you, then one option would be for one of you to rent a property or stay with family until the family home is sold Consult with your husband or wife over the sale price and choice of estate agent and make sure that the estate agent keeps you both informed about viewings and the feedback from prospective buyers. That way if the estate agent recommends a reduction in the sale price your spouse is more likely to be willing to consider this Get your paperwork in order as requests for documents from your buyer’s solicitor can delay the sale of the family home. If you have had work carried out at the property you need to locate your planning and building regulation documents, electrical, gas and FENSA certificates or organise duplicate paperwork Agree how you will divide the household contents as the last thing that you are likely to want to do is try and sort out household contents at the date of the sale. It is best to list the household contents and both sign the agreed schedule and the division of contents between the two of you and highlight what items, if any, will be sold with the house Think about whether you want to sell the family home if you haven’t reached a financial settlement with your husband or wife. It is common for a sale of the family home to be achieved before you reach a full financial settlement including how pensions, business assets and investments are split as well as whether spousal maintenance should be paid and for how long. If you are happy with the sale price of the family home and fear that you will risk losing your buyer if you delay beyond the end of the stamp duty holiday you could agree with your husband or wife that the net proceeds of sale of the family home (after discharging the mortgage, conveyancing solicitor and estate agent fees) are kept in a joint account or by a solicitor until agreement is reached or a financial court order is made. In some situations you can agree to the release of some extra money to allow you to buy your planned new property or to discharge family debts If your spouse won't agree to a sale of the family home get a court order. If you are certain that the family home has to be sold as it isn’t financially possible for either of you to take it on because the mortgage company won't transfer the existing mortgage into one of your names or you won't be able to afford the mortgage on one salary then speak to a divorce and financial settlement solicitor about starting financial proceedings for an order for sale of the family home. If your husband or wife won't cooperate with the sale of the property then a family judge has the power to make orders about the sale price, the choice of estate agent and can even sign the paperwork to sell the property if your ex-partner refuses to sign the contract to sell the house or the deed of transfer. How can Evolve Family Law solicitors help? Following the tips on how to sell your family home during a separation or divorce may make the sale process a bit easier but Manchester divorce and financial settlement solicitors recognise that taking the decision to separate and sell up is hard, especially in such troubled and turbulent times. For advice on any aspect of family law or information on your financial settlement options call Evolve Family Law on 0345 222 8 222 or complete our online enquiry form to set up a video conference or telephone appointment.Latest From Our Divorce Blog: